You shouldn't need much help. If you do with the server; all you have to do is start the run.bat. It should load everything. Don't mess with any of the mods or anything.
If you are having problems installing the mods/running just go into %appdata% then .technic then cache then delete everything in there!
If you are having problems installing the mods/running just go into %appdata% then .technic then cache then delete everything in there!